Views on flirting dating behaviors and promiscuity
Men are primarily attracted to women who are young, thin, and hot; this accounts for approximately 90% of men’s criteria for dating women.
In addition, I do actually think that sex differences exist.
I think that level of violence, libido, probably certain aspects of sexuality such as getting off on narrative versus getting off on visuals, and probably some stuff with emotions are all inherent, biological gender differences.
I do not necessarily endorse everything it says, but I do contingently agree with a lot of it.
Content note for profanity, social justice stuff, manosphere stuff, and graphic descriptions of sex. It is meant to rebut some common beliefs within the “manosphere” about how human sexual interaction works.
Indeed, many fetishes are obviously environmental in origin, unless one assumes that genes for fetishes for rubber, stuffed animals, and Catholic schoolgirls lay latent in the genome for tens of thousands of years. But I and my friends all agree who the hottest girls at the bar are. Love poetry was written about the beauty of the “lotus foot,” which was as small as three inches, and the swaying way a woman walked.
If I and my friends all went to a bar and started talking about who the hottest girl was, we would probably agree it was a girl with no makeup, a Star Wars T-shirt, and glasses. (See, for instance, this collection of Chinese erotic poems.) In Mauritania, women are sent to camps where they are force-fed tens of thousands of calories a day in order to become attractively obese.
Women seek betas when they are older or less attractive, or when they aren’t ovulating, in order to secure commitment and extract resources. I am polyamorous, which means I openly and honestly date multiple people at the same time.
Ideally, women want to get pregnant by alpha males and make betas take care of the child. I have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, social phobia, and generalized anxiety disorder. I am currently a camgirl, which means I take off my clothes and masturbate for money on the Internet.
This paper applies a biopsychosocial perspective to adolescent sexual feelings and behavior.